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We Can Hear the Bells and a Baby

by Trey Darnell July 02, 2013

By: Trey Darnell

On Wednesday morning (June 26, 2013) Matthew and I were in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee vacationing with my parents.  It was a few minutes before 10 o’clock and everyone was just waking up.  We knew that in just a few moments everything could change for us as a couple.  Along with thousands of other LGBT individuals throughout the world, we had joined the live chat with SCOTUS Blog

10:02 AM.  Everything changed!

 

SCOTUS Ruling via SCOUTUSBlog

SCOTUS Ruling via SCOUTUSBlog

The Supreme Court of the United States found Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional in the case United States v. Windsor.  A huge win for marriage equality.  The Supreme Court of the United States found that the petitioners of California’s Proposition 8 lacked standing to appeal and allowed the lower court’s ruling to stand.  A huge win for marriage equality in California.

Wednesday was a great day for the movement toward marriage equality and a moment that allowed Matthew and I to think further into the future.  Living in East Tennessee, we reside in a state that has a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.  The truth is, we are a long way from seeing marriage equality in the volunteer state.

With these outstanding and unprecedented victories, we have to keep moving forward.  There is still a long way to go to reach the finish line.  Momentum is on our side.  We have to keep having the conversations and educating our families, friends and communities.

NYC Celebrates Pride

NYC Celebrates Pride

I encourage each and every one of you that are reading this blog to take a few moments and email your elected officials both in the Unites States Senate and the United States House of Representatives.  Encourage their support for the Respect for Marriage Act.  This particular legislation would repeal DOMA in its entirety and allow every marriage, no matter if it is a man and a woman, two women or two men to be seen equally both at a national level and a state level.  The Respect of Marriage Act is a monumental piece of legislation.  Help encourage its passage.

It is hard to believe the month of June has come to an end so quickly.  It seems like yesterday I wrote about the excitement that laid ahead for June.  I feel we both used the cases involving DOMA and Prop 8 to take our focus off of the wait for Baby T-Rex to arrive.  It seems that we went from 20 weeks to 30 weeks so fast.  It is hard to believe that parenthood is quickly approaching.

Celebration at Stonewall Inn

Celebration at Stonewall Inn

Paperblog voted Matt & Trey Adopt as one of the Top 10 Adoption Twitter Feeds to follow.

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